My friend was telling me how frustrated she was with this boy she liked. They hung out about five times before he finally did the right thing and kissed her. I asked her why she just didn't initiate the kiss. She said that honestly, that's just something that the guy should do first: "I don't know if I could be with someone who isn't gutsy enough to go for it."
The next day, I'm on a second date. We go to a club; we're dancing closely the whole night. We then cuddle on the comfy lounge couch; we're about two centimeters away from each other. We keep making eye contact. Nothing. He doesn't do anything.
I asked a couple of friends what they would do in my situation. Should I have just gone for it myself? Surprisingly, they all agreed that the guy should be the one to kiss you first. It seemed old-fashioned, but it also somehow made sense.
A guy friend said it takes a lot of courage for a guy to kiss you. I'm sorry; I'm 5'1 and tiny. There's nothing intimidating about me. His girlfriend noted that it took him six months before he finally made a move (they were friends first).
All right, I am not waiting six months. I'm giving him one more date and then I'm doing the right thing myself.
Guys, what is so scary about finally making the move and kissing the girl, if you know she likes you? (I was giving him all the green lights). Girls, would you date a guy who wasn't gutsy enough to make the first move? Should I just screw all the advice and kiss him myself?
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